“It is never too late to be what you might have been. -George Eliot”
xbiancanoellex:

chernoalphanaut:

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YOU MATTER.Killing yourself won’t erase that. Just like stars, if you were to die tonight, your light, your very essence would be felt for years to come. Worse, you would be felt and missed.
Whatever you are dealing with, it will pass. It might not feel like it now, but you can change that. Tell yourself out loud that you matter. Do it. It might feel silly at first, but say it until you know it is true.
TALK TO SOMEONE. Tell them how you feel. Sometimes all you may need is getting those pent off emotions off of your chest.
Need a distraction? Do something positive. If that means stress-cleaning your room, do it. Write done your feelings, and then delete or throw away whatever you wrote them on. Draw your OTP. Read a story. Do something, so you can give all those negative emotions and thoughts a place to go.
Above all, do not harm yourself.BECAUSE YOU MATTER.

xbiancanoellex:

chernoalphanaut:

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YOU MATTER.
Killing yourself won’t erase that. Just like stars, if you were to die tonight, your light, your very essence would be felt for years to come. Worse, you would be felt and missed.

Whatever you are dealing with, it will pass. It might not feel like it now, but you can change that. Tell yourself out loud that you matter. Do it. It might feel silly at first, but say it until you know it is true.

TALK TO SOMEONE. Tell them how you feel. Sometimes all you may need is getting those pent off emotions off of your chest.

Need a distraction? Do something positive. If that means stress-cleaning your room, do it. Write done your feelings, and then delete or throw away whatever you wrote them on. Draw your OTP. Read a story.
Do something, so you can give all those negative emotions and thoughts a place to go.

Above all, do not harm yourself.
BECAUSE YOU MATTER.

(via thesirensaresingingyourname)

  1. If you like someone, wait.
  2. Give lots of compliments, even if you’re shy. Everyone else is too.
  3. Change. Get a haircut, try new perfume, get new sheets. Become better than you were before.
  4. Eat healthier. Learn to cook something fancy.
  5. Get up earlier and watch the sun come up.
  6. Wear soft clothes, take a bath, drink something warm.
  7. Meet someone new, even just a friend.
  8. Become closer with your friends and your family. Call your mother. Cry with your best friend. Tell everyone how much you appreciate them.
  9. Keep your room clean. Buy some candles. Let the natural light in.
  10. Make a list of reasons why you’ll be better off without them. Believe they are true, because they are.
  11. Listen to new music.
  12. Write everything you’re thinking and feeling. Write letters. Write happy letters, sad letters, and angry letters, even if you’re never going to send them.
  13. It’s okay to be sad, but not forever. Sadness is not as beautiful as music makes it seem. Lack of sleep makes your eyes droopy, not deep. Wake up every morning and tell yourself you’re going to have a good day.
  14. Go to the library. Don’t forget to look in the music section.
  15. Remove them from your life. Get rid of the things they gave you if they make you sad. They’re not worth it. You will never be happy if you continue to hold on to the things that make you sad.
  16. Make new memories.
  17. Try to find something to appreciate in everything you do or experience.
  18. Being alone is okay, you don’t have to surround yourself with people.
  19. Become your own best friend. Buy yourself coffee and drink it alone in a cafe. Take your time.
  20. Learn to love every bit of yourself.
— How to feel better and become better by me (via jessieestey)

(via eggrolli)

I stopped telling myself that I’m lost.

I’m not.

I’m on a road with no destination, I’m just driving with hope that I’ll find a place that I like and I’ll stay there.

I’m not lost, I’m on my way.

— Ahunnaya (via ranjhana)

(via pretty--lov3)

“My brother killed himself
on the twenty-eighth Thursday of last year
and I missed four days of work
and my mom wanted to know ‘Why’.
My brother
he was always a fan of beauty
but what he did
was not beautiful at all.

And last week I got the news
that one of my good friends from high school
had overdosed
(again)
except this time
she’d gone too far
and now she was gone.
And I had a hard time falling asleep at night
and her mother
hugged me tight
and thanked me for coming to the service
but I did not
want to be there at all.
This is not
beautiful.

The girl down the street
would’ve turned 21 last year
and I can scarcely imagine
the wild times she would’ve
(should’ve)
had.
But she is buried six feet deep
after falling nearly 300
and she did not leave a note.
This is not
beautiful.

My freshman year of college
and my roommate was beautiful
and how I wanted to be just like her.
But she wore herself down
till she was
almost invisible
and if you blinked
you had to go and find her all over again.
So now her parents are no longer supporting her college tuition
but are paying her hospital bills
watching their daughter crumble.
This is not
beautiful.

So y’all can take your narcissistic
romanticizing
and glamorizing
of self harm and eating disorders and committing suicide
and shove them as far up your ass
as you possibly can.
Starvation is not beautiful.
Killing yourself is not beautiful.
Sadness
is not beautiful.
This note I am writing
is not beautiful.

But you
you are beautiful
and it’s about damn time you start believing it.

— (via runiqu)

(via theturtleaffliction)

“My darling, you are allowed to fail without being a failure. You are allowed to make mistakes without becoming one. More opportunities will present themselves, you will find hope again.”
— (via kvtes)

(via thatbrickinthewall)